Warren Buffett - There Can’t Be Two You’s
This is a great post from a great writer, Trent over at The Simple Dollar. His blog is one of the best personal finance blogs out there and the most widely read as well - no coincidence I assure you.
Trent discussed the importance of one’s reputation and used a famous, well-used quote from one my idols, Warren Buffett. I love Buffett and all that comes along with him. He is the true silent assassin though. He folksy mannerisms and “aw-shucks” ways should not lead anyone to believe he is not a killer when it comes to business. But one thing he does do that is completely above board. He will never lie, cheat, or steal to get what he wants out of life.
He believes in hard work, doing your own homework, and NO SHORT CUTS! This last one is the most important in my opinion.
The quote Trent used was as follows:
“It takes 20 years to build a reputation and five minutes to ruin it. If you think about that, you’ll do things differently.”
There is another quote from the Oracle of Omaha that I like and that is “there can’t be two you’s.” Why is this one so important to me? I like it the best because he simply states that the person you are in public MUST be the same person you are in private as well - and vice-a-verse.
Trent’s post was amazing because it really focused in on the hurdles of keeping and maintaining the most important asset you have in your life - your reputation. The quote I like, the two you’s quote, runs along those same lines, but the reputation implications is just part of it.
Think about the implications of making sure you act the same way in public you do in your private life. Oftentimes in our lives, we save all the niceness and kind words and politeness for those who mean the least to us. And when we get home from our hectic lives, it is our children and spouses that suffer the negativeness of the real world pushing us around. If we just treated our loved ones the same way we would treat our co-workers or perfect strangers (for the fear of not being liked or making a good first impression) our lives would be enriched beyond our wildest dreams.
We can not live a phony life in public and not be that same person in private. We also can’t be cruel and uncaring in private and not have that carry over into our public persona. It just does not work that way. The truth about who you really are catches up to us no matter in public or private.
So the lesson here is to take a long hard look at who you think you really are. If you don’t like what you see, it is time to make some changes in your life. If you are happy with who you are in public (or private) but the other one suffers because you are trying to be something you are not - it is time for some changes as well. In any event, you will be a better person for it.
There can’t be two you’s quote is genius. I respect Warren Buffett the man as much as I do the personality and the business savvy. I respect Trent’s writing over at his blog just as much and wish him all the best.
